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demion
First, i don't ask stuff like this but i think i've been around this forum long enough to ask a question of this sort.
And i know this is a defence forum......but here goes.

I need to get over this obsessiveness.
How??????
Malikman
W00T.GIF

sorry mate.....u have to admit that this is sort of unusual here....

well the best way to get over a girl is to get another girl.

time tested!

DGMO
QUOTE(demion @ Oct 2 2004, 12:58 PM)
I need to get over her and the whole deal real quick.
How??????

Just use your right hand laugh.gif
cheif No 1
Allah say toba karo aur ksis dhang ki larki sai shadi karoo.
Paguma Larvata
QUOTE(DGMO @ Oct 2 2004, 07:18 AM)
Just use your right hand  laugh.gif
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ooooooooo bhensssssssssssss laugh.gif laugh.gif

abe yaar mard ka bacha ban. Kya larkion ke tarha roo raha hai. Just go and get another one. Life is too short for this smile.gif
Anarchist
First of all, never let anything to be your weakness.

Woman and mony are the biggest. they more you cry for them they more they will make you slave. Be a man now.

when you lose, dont lose the lesson.
demion
LOL....i needed that.....
Thanks.
Ok i feel better....
Malikman, i like your advice. And Lulli's too...
SNIPER.GIF Women!
Paguma Larvata
QUOTE(demion @ Oct 2 2004, 09:27 AM)
LOL....i needed that.....
Thanks.
Ok i feel better....
Malikman, i like your advice.  And Lulli's too...
SNIPER.GIF    Women!
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paji, I know how you feel. In the begining you will feel depressed, frustrated. It's all natural smile.gif

Apna saath tu this happens every other fuckin year. Just get another one. No big deal W00T.GIF
Mark Sien
Just stay quiet about it, and think about other things in life.
demion
QUOTE(Paguma Larvata @ Oct 2 2004, 10:45 AM)
paji, I know how you feel.  In the begining you will feel depressed, frustrated. It's all natural smile.gif

Apna saath tu this happens every other fuckin year. Just get another one. No big deal W00T.GIF
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I know what you're saying Paguma.... Trying to break out of that "One person soul mate " frame of mind. Not that this was the first...but i'm holding on to the old shit too tight. Purging ... in progress.
Kabul Hitman
Theres nothing better than a night out with the boys. Hook up with your mates, go to a few parties and you'll see enough pussy to get over this girl in no time BVICTORY.GIF No need for any wrist action.

However if you want the more suttle approach, pray for sabr smile.gif Talking helps too, preferbly to a male friend whom you can trust. Just don't talk to a woman, she'll just add to the emotional trauma. Its all mind games my friend. smile.gif
demion
QUOTE(Kabul Hitman @ Oct 2 2004, 11:12 AM)
Theres nothing better than a night out with the boys. Hook up with your mates, go to a few parties and you'll see enough pussy to get over this girl in no time BVICTORY.GIF  No need for any wrist action.

However if you want the more suttle approach, pray for sabr smile.gif  Talking helps too, preferbly to a male friend whom you can trust. Just don't talk to a woman, she'll just add to the emotional trauma. Its all mind games my friend.  smile.gif
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Yeah i think they seem to be on top of things when it comes to mind games.

Could'nt have known i'd find so much help on a defence forum. laugh.gif

you guys have no idea how much it helped.... I'm going out tonight...no more sulking..
Newbie
Now that you are cheered up and because this is a General Images forum, why don't you go ahead and post her picture here. laugh.gif
That may help you even more. bounce.gif
demion
QUOTE(Newbie @ Oct 2 2004, 12:01 PM)
Now that you are cheered up and because this is a General Images forum, why don't you go ahead and post her picture here.  laugh.gif
That may help you even more. bounce.gif
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LOL
Good one...i would, but then i don't wanna come back to this forum and look at her every time...
Paguma Larvata
Ok, trust me this is nothing compared to what I have been through. Ah women swear.gif

You hate them, but you just can't live without them smile.gif
Kabul Hitman
Thats so true Paggu. No matter how much we bitch about their tantrums, PMT and mind games, at the end of the day theres nothing like the smell and feel of a beautiful woman in your arms wub.gif
Griffin
time heals all wounds; but the right hand advice was good too
illusionist 304
first off dont turn nostalgic by holding on things associated with her. Get rid of all the lettes, cards or whatever which remind u of her. Secondly as Physco said .. dont lose the lesson: Never trust a gurl completely or make her your weakness.

Agur phir bhi trouble ho toa soch lena ke tum jub idhur taswey (ansoo) bahaa rahey ho uss ke liye .. she will most probably be chillin even if she gives the expression otherwise.

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Maverick
ill keep these comments in mind before i go looking for my girl!!
PEZ
screw her best friend, or even better, her mom (only if she's a milf)
UD2
u have guy friends right?

start chillin...
halfemtysoul
QUOTE(demion @ Oct 2 2004, 06:58 AM)
First, i don't ask stuff like this but i think i've been around this forum long enough to ask a question of this sort.
And i know this is a defence forum......but here goes.
I just broke up with my girl. Sort of in the process.....
I need to get over her and the whole deal real quick.
How??????
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Go out, get wasted with your buds, and nail another chick....that always works lol.
akbar_baqikhel
QUOTE(demion @ Oct 2 2004, 06:58 AM)
First, i don't ask stuff like this but i think i've been around this forum long enough to ask a question of this sort.
And i know this is a defence forum......but here goes.
I just broke up with my girl. Sort of in the process.....
I need to get over her and the whole deal real quick.
How??????
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All the advice that you have got above are not permanent solution for broken relationships. If you were indeed deeply involved with that girl, then you will definitely 'take time' to get over it, whatever be the means that you take to forget her.

You won't feel like doing anything for a while, you might feel lifeless and many such things. But all that takes time, the best way out though is to take your time & observe nature and find something else to naturally inspire you slowly, in normal course of time, you will find the better reasons why that 'break-up' happened.

But those reasons will be found only if you get out of that 'rut' you are in now. And start 'living' & breathing normally. Once you are comfortable enough to think about all that happened again without 'hurtin' you too much and feel mentally comfortable to really find out the 'real reasons' for whatever troubles you had to undergo then you will begin the process of 'getting over' the relationship.

Quite complex aint' it !
demion
QUOTE(akbar_baqikhel @ Oct 3 2004, 12:00 AM)
All the advice that you have got above are not permanent solution for broken relationships. If you were indeed deeply involved with that girl, then you will definitely 'take time' to get over it, whatever be the means that you take to forget her.

You won't feel like doing anything for a while, you might feel lifeless and many such things. But all that takes time, the best way out though is to take your time & observe nature and find something else to naturally inspire you slowly, in normal course of time, you will find the better reasons why that 'break-up' happened.

But those reasons will be found only if you get out of that 'rut' you are in now. And start 'living' & breathing normally. Once you are comfortable enough to think about all that happened again without 'hurtin' you too much and feel mentally comfortable to really find out the 'real reasons' for whatever troubles you had to undergo then you will begin the process of 'getting over' the relationship.

Quite complex aint' it !
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Y'all have been a lot of help... man i hope someone else got some help here too. Cuz i'm really not in the mood for another run for a while.
Web Master
QUOTE(demion @ Oct 2 2004, 06:58 AM)
First, i don't ask stuff like this but i think i've been around this forum long enough to ask a question of this sort.
And i know this is a defence forum......but here goes.
I just broke up with my girl. Sort of in the process.....
I need to get over her and the whole deal real quick.
How??????
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get ur self very busy...........u will get over her soon. or find ur self a new g.f


good luck smile.gif
INXCESS
hm dude..wo was that..that girl who u always talk wit. last semester..anyways didnt think u were gonna fall for her...hehehe take care dude...where were u duiring the hurricane..:p cheers

demion
QUOTE(INXCESS @ Oct 3 2004, 07:24 AM)
hm dude..wo was that..that girl who u always talk wit. last semester..anyways didnt think u were gonna fall for her...hehehe take care dude...where were u duiring the hurricane..:p cheers
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Hey inxcess , dude i forgot i know someone on this forum personally,
No its not that girl.... lol. hmmmm...But you know what....Persian girls are'nt that bad either....lol...no man, shes too religious for me. Great to hang around with. Good friend.
I was here during IVAN.... Actually with her out there in the eye of it all. Pretty memorable hurricane. What about you...left Alabama like the rest of the folks i knew or did you brave it?
Paguma Larvata
INXCESS sig says it all laugh.gif

Woman makes yr Hard parts soft and yr soft parts hard laugh.gif laugh.gif
MoThSmOkE
Just dont try to get over her, I mean just dont force it. Just go with the flow.

It will be ok, and yeah keep yourself busy! Remember, its all in the mind!
Griffin
man we should have a emotional healing forums too!!! i c that the forum has quite a few healers lol
Grim_Reaper26
Smoke Weed Every Day smile.gif
_kiLLuminati_
QUOTE(HeadHunter26 @ Oct 3 2004, 10:13 PM)
Smoke Weed Every Day smile.gif
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Good idea.
Sultan
QUOTE(_Samid_ @ Oct 3 2004, 10:14 PM)
Good idea.
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Go to bed yaar.. ! angry.gif angry.gif

Its past midnight in Toronto! angry.gif angry.gif

soo jaoo .. smile.gif
Grim_Reaper26
QUOTE(_Samid_ @ Oct 3 2004, 10:14 PM)
Good idea.
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I know smile.gif

Plain and Simple

so Now if u want some , i Can help u out aight smile.gif
INXCESS
well the humor in this forum and all that wanking advice is gonna keep demion busy..:p

btw during ivan went to tulsa,dallas and houston...was shit scared and didnt wanna take any chances..stoopid thing luckily didnt hit town..came back home after 2 days and was surprised to find power on...was stumped...


btw do u remeber we fuucked up out stats exam when we were all talking abt pakistanidefenceforum and checking it online during our exam ...that was a fun incident..gotta ###### up that blonde bitch who went and complained we were making a shit load of noise...
_kiLLuminati_
QUOTE(Sultan @ Oct 3 2004, 10:25 PM)
Go to bed yaar.. !  angry.gif  angry.gif

Its past midnight in Toronto!  angry.gif  angry.gif

soo jaoo ..  smile.gif
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Soo.. u live in tdot aswell?
starfighter104
ok i have a question... is masterbating bad for ur health????
i mean some people say "ohhhh wat r u talking about!!!" and they r like if u masterbate too much, u can become dickk less person, or gay......

and how many times do u guyz master bate.....

one more thing!!! this is not funny or something!!! this is all educational!!
_kiLLuminati_
QUOTE(starfighter104 @ Oct 5 2004, 01:34 PM)
ok i have a question... is masterbating bad for ur health????
i mean some people say "ohhhh wat r u talking about!!!" and they r like if u masterbate too much, u can become dickk less person, or gay......

and how many times do u guyz master bate.....

one more thing!!! this is not funny or something!!! this is all educational!!
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GET A LIFE
2GUNS.GIF
Jimmy Jimmy
Get the Canadian Whiskey bounce.gif
leroy
QUOTE(demion @ Oct 2 2004, 09:28 AM)
First, i don't ask stuff like this but i think i've been around this forum long enough to ask a question of this sort.
And i know this is a defence forum......but here goes.

I need to get over this obsessiveness.
How??????
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next time u fall in love with someone...get married.

Pray Salah...it will help u .

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Malikman
So whoms advice did u take?


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demion
QUOTE(Malikman @ Oct 8 2004, 07:48 AM)
So whoms advice did u take?
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Well, i'm feeling a lot better.. now since the idea of not getting fixated on a girl specially since they play all these games seemed to be the overwhelming notion on this forum. So i'm going to finish this semester and let it flow for now. Give it some time. Though i think using your right hand option really does not assuage me. Cuz i really liked this girl.
But thanks guys, you've all been a real help.

Yeah and the other question posted by our member about jerkin off...... dude if you have to do it every day ... like HAVE to .... then you gotta problem. Otherwise , its a natural thing. Don't try to control it. Like the guys said....Let it Flow! laugh.gif
imran miah
QUOTE(starfighter104 @ Oct 5 2004, 01:34 PM)
ok i have a question... is masterbating bad for ur health????
i mean some people say "ohhhh wat r u talking about!!!" and they r like if u masterbate too much, u can become dickk less person, or gay......

and how many times do u guyz master bate.....

one more thing!!! this is not funny or something!!! this is all educational!!
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its both good and bad actually, it can apparently degrade your vision but it also decreases chance of prostate cancer, oh and it can give you a bent dic*. LOLANI.GIF

and only looser fa*s wan*, i tend to go for the clit.
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