QUOTE(demion @ Oct 2 2004, 06:58 AM)
First, i don't ask stuff like this but i think i've been around this forum long enough to ask a question of this sort.
And i know this is a defence forum......but here goes.
I just broke up with my girl. Sort of in the process.....
I need to get over her and the whole deal real quick.
How??????
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All the advice that you have got above are not permanent solution for broken relationships. If you were indeed deeply involved with that girl, then you will definitely 'take time' to get over it, whatever be the means that you take to forget her.
You won't feel like doing anything for a while, you might feel lifeless and many such things. But all that takes time, the best way out though is to take your time & observe nature and find something else to naturally inspire you slowly, in normal course of time, you will find the better reasons why that 'break-up' happened.
But those reasons will be found only if you get out of that 'rut' you are in now. And start 'living' & breathing normally. Once you are comfortable enough to think about all that happened again without 'hurtin' you too much and feel mentally comfortable to really find out the 'real reasons' for whatever troubles you had to undergo then you will begin the process of 'getting over' the relationship.
Quite complex aint' it !